Sayings If You Open the Door of Shaitan

Ibn Masud radhiyallahu anhu said: Truly I bit the coals of fire until cold I preferred more than I said to a matter which was decreed by Allah: If it had not happened
(Az-Zuhd, Abu Dawud p. 128)
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In the hadith: The truth is if the words open the practice of shaitan
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Among the practice of shaitan: Making the speaker at once will protest against the decision and destiny of Allah, because utterance is often said when it happens what is not liked. Making the speaker only dream of something impossible, the saying goes: . And shaitan likes someone to dream of something that is impossible so that they are neglected from the ideals that may be achieved. Restoring the past is an impossible matter Making the speaker sad, and among the goals of shaitan is to make a believer sad so that he is futur and neglected from his useful activities, or so that he is not enthusiastic in his activities.
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What a believer should say when experiencing something hated is Qoddarollahu wa maa syaa-a faala. (This is already God-given, and God does what He wants
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What passes is past, make it a lesson to improve what is before us.
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(Ustadz Firanda Andirja, hafizhohullah)