Under the auspices of an unpretentious household that's where the wife lives, the hero behind the screen is carrying calm and coolness. The Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wasallam said,

"The world is full of pleasure. And the best of the world's pleasures is the righteous wife. ”(See Shahih Jami’ Shaghir by Al-Albani)

Among the beauty of the character of the Prophet sallallaahu aih alaihi wasallam and the harmony of his household was to call ‘Ayesha radhiyallahu dengan anha with his beloved name and preach to him the news that made the soul seemed to hover.

Ayesha Radhiyallah ha anha said, "One day the Prophet sallallaahu aih alaihi wasallam said to him,‘ O isy Aisy (favorite vocation ‘Ayesha radhiyallahu‘ anha), the Angel Gabriel aih alaihissalam delivered greetings to you. "(Muttafaq‘ alaih)

Even his sallallaahu ‘alaihi wasallam as the Prophet of the people who was the most perfect of his morality and the highest degree has given a valuable example in terms of being good to his wife and in humility, as well as knowing women's desires and jealousies. He sallallaahu aih alaihi wasallam placed them in the position coveted by all women. That is to be a wife who has an honorable position beside her husband.

Ayesha radhiyallahu ha anha said, "One time I drank, and I was menstruating, then I gave my glass to the Prophet sallallaahu aih alaihi wasallam and he drank it from the mouth of the glass where I drank. On another occasion I ate a piece of meat, then he took the piece of meat and ate it right where I ate it. "(Narrated by Muslim)

He sallallaahu ‘alaihi wasallam was not as expected by the hypocrites or as alleged by the Orientalists with false accusations and false confessions. Even his sallallaahu aih alaihi wasallam preferred the most beautiful and simple household ethics.

Narrated by yah Aisyah radhiyallahu ‘anha that he said," The Prophet sallallaahu aih alaihi wasallam once kissed one of his wives, then departed to perform prayer without renewing ablution '. "(Narrated by Abu Daud and Tirmidhi)

On various occasions, he always explained clearly the high position of women on his side. They womenfolk have a great position and a high degree. The Prophet sallallaahu aih alaihi wasallam once answered the question ‘Amr bin Al-shAsh radhiyallah‘ anhu about this problem, he explained to him that loving a wife is not a taboo thing for a normal man.



Amr bin Al-shAsh radhiyallahu ‘anhu once asked the Prophet sallallaahu‘ alaihi wasallam, "Who is the person you love the most?" He replied, "‘ Aisha! "(Muttafaq‘ alaih)

Whoever craves the happiness of the household, let him pay attention to the stories of 'Aisha radhiyallah ah anha with the Messenger of Allah sallallaahu ‘alaihi wasallam. How are the tips of the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wasallam happy‘ Ayesha radhiyallahu ‘anha.

From yah Ayesha radhiyallahu ha anha he said, "I used to bathe together with the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam from one vessel." (Narrated by Al-Bukhari)

The Prophet did not miss the slightest opportunity except he used it to make his wife happy and pleasing through things that were permissible.

Ayesha radhiyallah ‘he told,

At one point I joined the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wasallam on a tour. At that time I was still a slim girl. He sallallaahu aih alaihi wasallam ordered the group to move first. They departed before us. Then he said to me, "Come here! now we are running a race. "I went through it and finally I could surpass him. He sallallaahu aih alaihi wasallam was just silent about my superiority earlier. Until another time, when I was rather fat, I joined him on a tour. He sallallaahu aih alaihi wasallam ordered the group to move first. Then he challenged me to race again. And finally he can surpass me. He laughed as he said, "This is the last redeemer of defeat!" (Narrated by Ahmad)

Really! is a form of play that is very gentle and a very big concern. He ordered the group to leave first so that he could cheer his wife's heart by asking him to run a race. Then he combined the past game with the new one, he said, "This is the last redeemer of defeat!"

For those who often travel around the world and pay attention to the circumstances of the people who are respected in each people, surely will be amazed at the actions of the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wasallam. He was a noble Prophet, a leader who was always victorious, a descendant of the noble tribe of the Quraysh and Banu Hashim. During moments of glory, he returned from a war with victory with a large group of troops. Even so, he was still a person of love and humility towards his wives the Ummahaatul Mukiminin radhiyallah h anhun. His position as leader of the army, the long journey taken, and the victory after victory achieved in the battlefield, did not make him forget that he was accompanied by the wives of weak women who desperately needed a gentle touch and spoiled whispers. In order to be able to remove the heavy burden of a very exhausting trip.

It is narrated by Imam Bukhari that when the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wasallam returned from the battle of Khaibar, he married Shafiyyah binti Huyaiy radhiyallahu‘ anha. He sallallaahu aih alaihi wasallam extended a curtain near the camel to be ridden to protect the Shafiyyah of Allah ‘anha from the view of people. Then he sat on his knees on the side of the camel, he invited the Shafiyyah of Allah to be ascended to the camel by resting on his knees.



A scene like this gives an impression that is so deep that shows his brotherhood. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) as a victorious leader and a Prophet who was sent gave an example to his people that behaving tadadhu to their wives, invited his knees as a foundation, helped with homework, pleased his wife, did not reduce his degree and position.